On MLK Day, the most tolerant U.S. city? It's our very own ... by Bob Geary Jan. 16, 2012 2:23 p.m. Back to Search Results × photo by Bob Geary... Durham, N.C.San Francisco is 3rd, my old home town of Trenton, NJ, is 7th, and Raleigh checks in at a not-too-shabby 18th, just behind Orlando, Fla., and San Diego and ahead of Riverside, Calif., and Tampa.It's all right here in the Daily Beast. (And who could argue with the DB?)